Befriending Betsy: A Memoir - Paperback

by Jen Braaksma (Author), Betsy Pauly (Author)

For readers who loved Marley & Me, a poignant memoir about cats, dogs, and what it means to forge a friendship--in life and in death--with a person you can never meet.

Betsy Pauly died five years before Jen Braaksma knew she had even lived. Betsy was an artist and writer hailing from Minnesota, Texas, Missouri, and Florida. Jen is an author and book coach from Ottawa, Canada. Yet, improbably, Betsy became Jen's friend.

When Betsy died, she left behind a heartbroken husband, a hole in the hearts of her family and friends, and a half-finished manuscript. To honor his wife, Chips wanted to publish her animal stories--Betsy was a dedicated animal welfare advocate who could never say no to a stray dog or cat (or dozens!).

Turning manuscripts around is Jen's job. But as she worked, she never expected to form a friendship with the woman on the page. How was that even possible? Readers might feel they "know" an author by their writing, but Jen's experience went further. She got to see Betsy's drafts and her process. She got to see Betsy's mind. And in doing so, she got to know this extraordinary woman. This may be Jen's journey, but it's Betsy's story. A story about dedication, passion, and the connection that comes from sharing your authentic self--even between two people who can never meet.

Author Biography

Jen Braaksma is the author of two young adult novels, Evangeline's Heaven and Amaranth. A former journalist and high school English teacher, Jen is now a book coach who helps writers develop their stories. She lives in Ottawa, Canada, with her husband (soulmates do exist!), two daughters (Best. Kids. Ever.) and her four cats (who know they're in charge).

Betsy Pauly, originally from Minneapolis, earned her degree in business before taking on the corporate world. She began painting professionally in 1986, then turned to writing in 2010. Over the years, Betsy rescued more than one hundred cats, at least ten dogs, and one blind pigeon. With her husband, Chips, she lived in Dallas, Texas, Carthage, Missouri, and Englewood, Florida, before her death in 2016.