{"product_id":"when-kids-call-the-shots-how-to-seize-control-from-your-darling-bully-and-enjoy-being-a-parent-again-paperback","title":"When Kids Call the Shots: How to Seize Control from Your Darling Bully -- And Enjoy Being a Parent Again - Paperback","description":"\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eSean Grover\u003c\/b\u003e (Author)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cstrong\u003eIf you want to fix your rebellious and disrespectful child, you need to start by fixing yourself.\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eAre your kids pummeling you with demands and bossing you around with impunity? Have your once-precious preschoolers become rebellious, entitled, and disrespectful to authority? While there are plenty of so-called experts who might try to validate your convictions that you have done all you can to \"fix\" your \"difficult\" children, the hard truth is, they're not doing you any favors by placing the responsibility solely on your children. Parenting struggles rarely originate from just one side. Instead, they erupt at the volatile intersection of a child's personality with a parent's own insecurities and behaviors.\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003eIn \u003cem\u003eWhen Kids Call the Shots\u003c\/em\u003e, therapist and parenting expert Sean Grover untangles the forces driving family dysfunction, and helps parents assume their leadership roles once again. Parents will discover: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThree common bullying styles used by kids\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eParenting styles that contribute to power balances\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCritical testing periods in a child's development\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eCoping mechanisms that backfire\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003ePersonalized plans for calmly exerting authority in any scenario\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003cp\u003eThe solution to any problem begins with learning to control what you can control. In parenting, you've already learned how impossible it is to control your kids. Begin by controlling you!\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eBack Jacket\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eIf you've picked up this book, you're probably at your tipping point. Behavior that used to seem excusable--he's just spirited; she's a little lawyer--has become a huge source of stress in your life. \u003c\/p\u003e  But parenting doesn't have to be this hard. \u003cb\u003eWhen Kids Call the Shots\u003c\/b\u003e opens your eyes to the root cause of your child's bossy behavior, with a liberating message and perceptive advice that puts your family on a healthier, happier path. With this sanity-saving book, you'll:   - Recognize the three most common bullying styles that our kids use against us--anxious, defiant, and manipulative--and learn strategies to restore your leadership  - Understand how your own insecurities and personal history have shaped your parenting choices  - Discover the three parenting styles--guilt-prone, anxiety-fueled, and fix-everything--that are most likely to provoke disruptive behavior in children  - See how troubling behaviors are often triggered by conflicts between your child's personality and your parenting style  - Be alert to the critical \"testing\" periods in children's development that fuel conflicts with their parents  - See how increasing self-care and eliminating burnout can strengthen your parental leadership role  - Know exactly what to do when your child acts out  - Reclaim your parent power, and bring back the joys of family life   \"Inspired and practical thinking by one of the finest therapists in the field.\" \u003cb\u003e--Julie Y. Low, MD, Board-Certified Child \u0026amp; Adolescent NYU Faculty\u003c\/b\u003e  \"Masterful lessons in the delicate art of parenting.\" \u003cb\u003e--Marianne Pearl, author of \u003ci\u003eA Mighty Heart and In Search of Hope\u003c\/i\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e  \"Sage advice that parents will be able to use immediately.\" \u003cb\u003e--Jean Kunhardt, MA, LMHC, Director, Soho Parenting\u003c\/b\u003e   \u003cb\u003eSean Grover, LCSW\u003c\/b\u003e, is a psychotherapist with 20 years' experience working with adults and children, and he maintains one of the largest private group therapy practices in the United States. He has designed award-winning youth programs and has been quoted in \u003ci\u003eNewsweek\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eNew York Magazine\u003c\/i\u003e, NPR, and elsewhere about parent-child relationships. For information on parenting workshops, articles, and videos, or to contact Sean, visit www.seangrover.com. \u003ch3\u003eAuthor Biography\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003eSEAN GROVER, LCSW, has worked in child development and adult psychotherapy for 20 years, and maintains one of the largest private group therapy practices in the U.S. He has been quoted in \u003ci\u003eNewsweek\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eNew York Magazine\u003c\/i\u003e, \u003ci\u003eNPR\u003c\/i\u003e, and elsewhere about parent-child relationships. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 224\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.5 x 9 x 6 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e June 03, 2015\u003c\/div\u003e","brand":"Books by splitShops","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":45612721438764,"sku":"9780814436004","price":18.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"url":"https:\/\/smartsupplydeals.com\/products\/when-kids-call-the-shots-how-to-seize-control-from-your-darling-bully-and-enjoy-being-a-parent-again-paperback","provider":"Smart supply deals","version":"1.0","type":"link"}