# Mothercare: On Obligation, Love, Death, and Ambivalence - Hardcover

by **Lynne Tillman** (Author)

**"Masterfully-wrought . . . \[A\] stunning story of caregiving, with its questions of obligation and ethics and what it means to care for someone who, perhaps, didn't care for you." --_The Boston Globe_**

From the brilliantly original novelist and cultural critic Lynne Tillman comes MOTHERCARE, an honest and beautifully written account of a sudden, drastically changed relationship to one's mother, and of the time and labor spent navigating the American healthcare system.

When a mother's unusual health condition, normal pressure hydrocephalus, renders her entirely dependent on you, your sisters, caregivers, and companions, the unthinkable becomes daily life. In MOTHERCARE, Tillman describes doing what seems impossible: handling her mother as if she were a child and coping with a longtime ambivalence toward her.

In Tillman's celebrated style and as a "rich noticer of strange things" (Colm Tóibín), she describes, without flinching, the unexpected, heartbreaking, and anxious eleven years of caring for a sick parent.

MOTHERCARE is both a cautionary tale and sympathetic guidance for anyone who suddenly becomes a caregiver. This story may be helpful, informative, consoling, or upsetting, but it never fails to underscore how impossible it is to get the job done completely right.

### Author Biography

**Lynne Tillman** is a novelist, short story writer, and cultural critic. Her novels are _Haunted Houses; Motion Sickness; Cast in Doubt; No Lease on Life_, a finalist for the National Book Critics Circle Award; _American Genius, A Comedy,_ and _Men and Apparitions_. Her nonfiction books include _The Velvet Years: Warhol's Factory 1965-1967_, with photographs by Stephen Shore; _Bookstore: The Life and Times of Jeannette Watson and Books & Co_.; and _What Would Lynne Tillman Do?_, a finalist for the National Book Critics Circle Award in Criticism. She is the recipient of a Guggenheim Foundation Fellowship and The Andy Warhol Foundation Arts Writers Grant. Tillman is Professor/Writer-in-Residence in the Department of English at The University of Albany, and lives in New York with bass player David Hofstra.

**Number of Pages:** 176

**Dimensions:** 0.72 x 8.51 x 5.81 IN

**Illustrated:** Yes

**Publication Date:** August 02, 2022

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